Be you. Do you. For you.

Be you. Do you. For you.

Those are such powerful words.  I’ve been reflecting on those words for awhile now.  So much so that that’s what we titled one of our podcast episodes recently! On our podcast, Keri, Kristin, and I talked about the importance of taking care of yourself and doing things that make you happy. For no one else but yourself.  (If you’re dying to check it out, click here!) I have had some time to reflect on everything going on lately.  So much has happened this past year and I don’t really know how to put it all into words.  I feel that the past year has been a roller coaster of emotions! So many great things have happened to our family, but also many changes and those can be a lot to deal with.  I’ve spent a lot of the year just trying to figure out how to roll  through the ups and downs (we all have them).  If the move from Texas to Marina del Rey wasn’t enough, we’ve moved again to the Valley which brings on more changes and more adjustments.  Did I mention it’s been a lot lately?

We’re pretty good at adjusting.  We’ve always had a saying that as long as our family is together, we’re good.  It didn’t matter where we were, or where are journey took us, we’re good if we’re together (which is why we moved to begin with). I recently began to reflect a lot on myself.  You know, what makes me happy, what I want to do with my life in CA (I was a teacher forevvvverrr), what am I good at (still trying to figure it out)…etc.  I have always wanted to work in real estate so I thought it would be a good time to pursue it.  I mean, selling homes in LA sounds like a great way to make money! Plus, I’ve always dreamed of being on one of those real estate reality shows that make it look so glamorous! LOL! I set out to do it, and I did.  It only took me about 5 months, but it was grueling at times. We’re talking staying up and studying until 3am because I didn’t want to miss out on any family fun.  So I’d wait until everyone went to bed.  Haha! Although I have my license now and can start at anytime, I found myself waiting because this little podcast gig came about.  It’s funny, I’ve started this podcast with two of my closest friends and my friends from back home and people that know me well are actually pretty surprised! It’s definitely NOT something they thought I’d ever do!  See, I’m actually quite introverted and super private. I like to stay home and be in the comfort of those I’m closest to.  I call it veg-ing.  I love to veg out in my sweats and tank tops and just watch movies and have game nights.  That’s pretty much it. I’ve never been the life of the party.  Ever. I actually can be pretty quiet.  This podcast has truly helped me to see that I can do anything! I love recording once a week to share funny stories and relatable messages with anyone that will listen! I love being able to connect with other women! It’s given me a whole new self confidence I never knew I had.  And for that I’m thankful. I’m actually able to be me.  Which is everything.

I’ve spent much of the year trying to really reflect on the importance of family as a whole and each of us as individuals.  Every day there is a new lesson to be learned and taught.  I see the struggles people have every day on social media. Most people hear about everything first on social media.  That in itself is a crazy adjustment and nothing you can ever quite truly prepare yourself for. Like I said…I’m a private person most of the time so that’s something that I’ve had to really come to terms with.  You gotta take the good with the bad, I guess! 🙂 It’s important for each and every one to value their own self worth and know that what people think about them does not define who they are.  It’s an ongoing thing. In this day and age, it’s easy to hide behind a computer or social username and say things that most people would never say to someone in person (at least I would hope they wouldn’t).  Parents, teach your kids to value the words of those they care about rather than those hiding behind a screen.  Teach them to value themselves as unique individuals. Also kids, don’t give these people power over you. Most of the time these haters are looking for a reaction.  It’s sometimes best to ignore them and not give them the attention they desire.  Of course, use your best judgement.  In times of threats or emergency situations, it’s always best to tell someone of authority or an adult. #disclaimer lol.

Okay…I’ve digressed.  I do that often.  I’m a thinker. An over thinker. It’s annoying.  Some people talk and voice their concerns, thoughts, and worries.  I internalize every. single. thought. I get asked a lot…what’s wrong? And honestly most of the time…I’m just thinking!  My mind is always going.  Sometimes, I have so much to say that I want to write it out here in this blog.  But most of the time my thoughts are so jumbled and all over the place that I find it hard to put down in words.  It’s crazy.  Anyone else feel that way sometimes?  I’d love to know I’m not alone!

Anyway…so much of my daily thoughts that consume me are wondering if we’re making the right decisions. I want to always support my kids in every passion or interest they have.  I’m grateful it has worked out so well for Zach.  It is the best feeling in the world to know that your child is living his dream and his best life!  He has accomplished so much already and is getting to do things most people can only dream of.  It’s a good feeling.  The best.  Of course, I can’t rest yet.  We have two other kids that we want to make sure feel just as supported in whatever passions they may have.  Ryan is super talented as well and is beginning to pursue his interests and see where they take him!  I’m excited to see what his journey will look like!  Whatever it is…it’ll be all his.  And of course, Reese.  She’s just kind of trying different things.  She’s just enjoying being a kid. She loves art, dance, acting, and singing! I love that she loves to sing too…and she is actually quite good!  No, no…I cannot sing. And neither can Josh.  Everyone asks us where our kids get it from…but it’s not us.  They must get it from my father and Josh’s uncle, because they’re pretty talented.  But not us.  Please don’t ask us to sing if you see us.  We will never do it!  HAHA! You’ll thank us later. You’re welcome! 😉

I have found myself looking at business opportunities lately.  I often wonder why.  Why do I want to start something new up again?  This has consumed my mind for awhile now. I think I’ve come to the realization that I want something to work for for myself.  Something that is about me.  Also, it’s pretty expensive supporting your kids through all their passions especially in Los Angeles!!! That’s the biggest downside to moving to California from Texas…the cost of living!  It’s soooo much more than TX! Probably like 3 times more!  Anyway, I’m thankful Josh has a great job that allows him to work from home! We love having him home with us so it’s been such a blessing!  But…I’m always looking for ways to help out and support where I can.  I’ve always been a fan of network marketing companies. I think I’m drawn to the low start up costs and big, sky’s the limit potential.  I also love the community it comes with and friendships that are developed! I’ve been a part of them before but I’ve learned that once your passion for something fades…it’s time to move on. Thankfully, there are so many to be a part of and it just takes finding the right one.

I’m a big believer of things happening for a reason.  My kids know this.  I say it ALL the time!  🙂 But…I have been looking into new skin care regimens because we all know I’m not getting any younger! I’m seeing things I haven’t seen before and well…I want to nip that in the bud! I had used Rodan+Fields skincare products before and fell in love with them.  I recently started seeing more about the business opportunity pop up on all my social feeds and I became interested once again.  I knew I had found what I was looking for!  What could be better than combining amazing skincare products with a booming business opportunity!!!  The crazy thing is I was just about to sign up as a consultant and was ready to let my friends know all about it…when I saw an Instagram post from my friend, Shayna, (Keri’s sister) promoting that she was a new Rodan+Fields consultant!  I was like…WHAT?!?!  I was so shocked!  I’m not really sure why.  Probably because I felt like she beat me to the punch!  HAHA!  But what I realized is that it was fate.  I knew that was my sign!  I immediately reached out to her and talked about joining her in this journey!  Of course we had an immediate connection (of course because she’s just like Keri!) and we quickly dreamed about all the fun we would have and all the trips we could take together!  We knew we were going to kill it! #bossbabes

I’m actually quite excited about how everything is turning out! I get weirdly excited about things like this! I love challenges and love trying to make things happen! I’m warning you now…you may start seeing more posts from me about feeling great, trying new things, kicking butt, and doing you! I want everyone to feel accepted and supported in anything you choose to pursue!  You will get nothing but support from me!  I hope the same in return! Stay tuned for my business roll out!  I’m going to be looking for some pretty motivated #bossbabes that want to join me! Thanks for listening.  It feels good to get that all out in words! haha! Until next time, my friends!

xo,

myta